Kink and Sexy - Blow His Mind

Volume 28: Blow His Mind

by Gracie Smith


In honor of Valentine’s Day, lets treat your mind with a bit of knowledge about blow jobs!  Valentine’s Day is a special day where many women have expectations of what their partner is supposed to do for them.  Women want to be wowed from flowers at work to make their co-workers jealous, to chocolates in bed or even as far as expecting him to pop the question on the most romantic day of the year.  Now as much as I love all these ideas, lets stop being greedy little whores and think of HIM too!!  Love is a give and take relationship, so on a day that is about LOVE, give him love!  You man is going out of his way to make this day special for you, why don’t you show this Valentine’s blow his mind with your mad skills you’ve acquired.


Now I know some of you are grumbling about my man doesn’t wow me or we don’t celebrate, but as my girl Liona wrote last week, there is ALWAYS a reason to celebrate, even if you have to create it.  Ladies, take the initiative and show him what your love.


When I first learned how to do blow jobs, I didn’t have a bunch of girl friends to talk to on how to perfect the most amazing experience for him, I read Dr. Sadie Allison’s best selling book, “Tickle His Pickle.”  She offers over 50 techniques to blow his mind, joke all you want, this lady knows her stuff and it has not let me down yet, and yes it is a book we sell.


You can start any way you’d like, present him with his favorite candies, dress up in lingerie, interrupt him in the middle of your favorite romantic comedy that he’s watching for you.  Set the mood, turn down the lights or light some candles, put on some sweet scents and curl into him.


Then the next part is crucial!  Make eye contact with him.  They say eyes are the window to the soul, but it is also the door to your emotions and is a very intimate gesture.  If he can physically see that you are turned on, it will make him more aroused.  Men are visual creatures and there is something super hot to him watching your lips moving around his shaft.  So make sure your hair is out of your face and you can see each other.


Talk dirty!  You can give certain suggestive comments that will blow his mind.  Instead of saying “Ejaculate inside me” which is not sexy at all, “Cum” is much more visual and dirty word that gives an immediate reaction.  Remember he is a visual creature so talk visual.  Mention how things look, “You like my lips on your…” or “I want to see…” If you want to kick it up, ask him questions, “Do you like it when I…” or “Does it feel good when…”  “Do you want me to…”  You as a woman have the ability to fluctuate your voice to sound even more seductive to him.  Visuals and sounds blow his mind!


If you’re looking for more techniques, check out “Tickle His Pickle” and we wish you the best on this very special Valentine’s Day adventure.

As always, I love who I am, I love what I do, and I love the products I get to share with all of you.  I am the creator and CEO of Full Bloom Parties and until next time, be cool, stay safe and practice your own KINK and Sexy.


I hope you enjoy, like, comment, and keep in touch with all the up-coming blogs.  Ladies, if you’d like to be interviewed for your own KINK and Sexy article, be sure to message me either through social media or by email at and we’ll set up an interview! 


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