by Liona Sun
Volume 14: Sexy and Single
One of the biggest complaints I hear as an Adult Toys Consultant is, I don’t need any of that, I’m single. I of course purse my lips and raise an eyebrow and say, “Oh really?” If anything I believe you are the one that needs my products even more. No, it’s not going to raise your expectations on what men can do and no, it’s not going to speed dial a partner for you, but it will relax you, impress you, make you happy, and a heck of a lot more tolerable to those around you. No body likes the “if I only had…” “I wouldn’t know because I don’t have…” “I wish I had…” Stop. It will happen. Everyone wants somebody, but until you lower your expectations and realize people aren’t perfect to find Mr./Mrs. Right, cool your jets and enjoy yourself. LITERALLY.
I want a million dollars and an amazing beach house, but it’s not gonna happen if I don’t work for it. You may want a partner, but if you’re a cranky woman with a “they’re not good enough” attitude you won’t get one. This does not mean, take the next Tom, Dick or Harry that crosses your path, but don’t shun men away just because you’re afraid either.
So what do you do in the meantime? Love yourself. Tell yourself you’re beautiful, buy yourself some flowers, write yourself a love note, treat yourself to a fancy dinner, and show yourself a good time in the bedroom. Start treating yourself as you wish to be treated. You don’t NEED a partner to feel loved and sexy, that all comes from within.
Single ladies envy others who wield the power. Independent single ladies know the power they wield. Independent, confident and single ladies use the power they wield. We have the ability to make heads turn, seduce the senses, and entice a potential lover to be ours for however long, but not until we recognize it in ourselves.
Now that I got you thinking, let’s talk about products. There are thousands of toys on the market that can help you as a single woman release tension, relax the body and of course reset the spool in your belly. It really depends what you’re after. Do you want to take your time or do you want a quick release in seconds? Do you want an insertable toy or a clitoral only toy? Do you want it malleable? Do you want texture? Do you want it to rotate or thrust? That is the best part, I can reasonably create what you’d like because there are so many options; you just have to be guided in the right direction. The best part is any toy out there can become a solo toy, it just depends what your goals and end game is.
It is not wrong to look to devices to help you reach your climax. Some women need the added vibration, where as others need aromatic smells or candle light. Just because you’re single does not make you defective. It doesn’t make you useless, and it sure as heck doesn’t make you broken. Just because you’re single doesn’t mean you have to stop playing, you still have the urges, and you’re human after all. Show yourself some respect and treat yourself to a happy ending.
As always, I love who I am, I love what I do, and I love the products I get to share with all of you. I am Liona Sun, Full Bloom Parties Blogger and until next time, be cool, stay safe and practice your own KINK and Sexy.
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